Hickeys Everywhere
  • Travel Itineraries
    • The Azores
    • Maine. Boston. Nantucket. NYC.
    • 9 Reasons to Book a Disney Cruise
    • Tulum Mexico
    • 4 Days in Paris With Kids
    • Walking the Camino de Santiago with Kids
    • Two Days in Bruge with Kids
    • 4 Days in Mallorca
    • 7 Nights in Austria
  • Moving to Spain
  • Living in Spain
  • Travel Resources & Tips
  • Contact & Media Kit
  • Book
  • Menu Menu
  • Link to Instagram
  • Link to Pinterest
  • Link to Facebook

Public Schools in Spain vs. the US

For the sake of keeping this post factual, here is some interesting data. These figures are TOTALS from 2 different Spanish public schools for 2 children over the span of 1 and a half school years:

  • Emails received from teachers = 0
  • Standardized tests = 0
  • Fundraisers I’ve been asked to participate in = 0
  • School sporting events = 0
  • Newsletters sent home from school/teachers = 2
  • Lunches packed = 2
  • Dress up, concerts or spirit days requiring special purchases = 0
  • School shootings in the history of Spain = 0
  • Requested parent/teacher conferences = 5

I’ve broken the varying aspects of common public schools to draw comparisons. Friendly reminder that each school is different and this is my experience with 2 different schools in Valencia, Spain. Why are they in different schools? There was no space when we enrolled and the lack of openings continues to be problematic so if you are planning a move here, begin school searching asap. FYI my kids are 8 and 11 years old.

SMALLER/TIGHT KNIT CLASSES

Most classes sizes in Spain are between 18-25 students. The local law prohibits class sizes bigger than 25 in ages 3 – 12 classrooms.

Lots of Spanish families have lived in their homes and gone to the neighborhood school for generations. This means that classes are usually made up of students that have known each other since they were in diapers.

Also, elementary schools here start at age 3 to age 12 and there is only one class per grade level meaning each school has about 175 total kids.

LUNCH

No need to argue who does it best, the Spanish are leading by a landslide in both healthy meals and zero-waste cafeterias.

Most US public schools allow outside lunches, Spanish schools do not. Students either go home to eat for this 2 hour lunch/play break or they stay for lunch (comedor) and playground time.

In the Spanish cafeteria students are monitored in what they eat, how they eat, and how they clean up their eating area. There are no choices in the cafeteria – you are served what is available that day. Fruit and veggies, fish and meats, rice dishes, and water are the norm. You must eat in courses and you can not have the second course until you’ve finished the first. Picky eating is very simply not tolerated.

All trays are metal or reusable hard plastic and silverware is indeed silver. However, lunch costs around 4 euro per child so that adds up quickly compared to $2.50 in the US. You can apply for “scholarships” or aid from the government in Spain to offset the cost.

US schools are churning out lots of healthy options after First Lady Obama’s “Let’s Move” initiative but the real issue is the children are served these foods and no one is checking to see if they actually eat it. Lunches are rushed at 15-25 minutes and most kids eat a few bites of their pizza, all of their cookie and a couple apple slices.

The real nail in the coffin: every student is served a plastic single use water bottle, a plastic bag with a napkin, 3 plastic utensils and straw, a styrofoam tray, and individual styrofoam cups and bowls that nest in the tray. I implore you to sit in a US school cafeteria and watch what each child selects, eats, and wastes – it will truly shock you.

RELIGION

In public school you can choose to take religion or ethics. We chose ethics class for both of our kids and they talk about respect, issues on the playground, acceptance, etc. Images of Jesus or the saints might be seen in the classroom but beyond that their schools are not pushing Catholicism.

DAILY SCHEDULE

Daily schedules are a bit under fire right now and are in a transition. However, here’s a sample schedule from my son’s school. Most schools operate from 9 – 4:30 and a typical schedule is:

  • 9-11:00 classes
  • 11-11:30 morning snack and recess time (morning snack is a small sandwich or fruit brought from home)
  • 11:30 – 1:30 classes
  • 1:30 – 3:30 lunch in cafeteria or at home and recess
  • 3:30 – 4:30 classes

There are options for before and after care for working parents but the service is not utilized as much as in the US –  grandparents pitch in and some children walk themselves home.

SPORTS

Competitive sports in schools do not exist in Spain. If you want to play other teams – that is done outside of school in clubs. After school classes do exist in Spain if you want to simply play or learn basketball, inline skating, computers, etc. but they cost a little extra and are not competitive.

This means that your athletic abilities or inabilities are not widely known at your school. Sports can not be your identity or reason for feeling inferior/superior to your classmates.

Yes there is a flip side to this argument: “some US kids go to school so they can play sports” but what if they were conditioned from a young age that school and sports are separate? Maybe they would view school differently, maybe not? People that are usually defensive of school sports being a part of school are people that enjoy sports and can’t imagine the disentanglement of sports and school.

TOILET PAPER?!

I have two words for Spanish schools: no frills. This includes…BYOTP. Yep. Bring your own toilet paper because there’s not always school provided paper. I can’t believe how little they seem to spend on school buildings and materials. It’s a glaring difference but one that sends a loud message: PEOPLE truly make school special.

There’s no school nurses nor school resource officers – schools are just too small. I’ve included a picture of my daughters “playground” to give you an idea of just how minimal the infrastructure is. She jumps rope, makes up dances, and uses her imagination a lot;)

In general, classrooms are basic. Blackboards and chalk are in some rooms but so are smart boards. Every school is a bit different but you won’t find fancy bulletin boards and rooms full of cute colored carpets and bookshelves full of extra supplies.

In fact, children are encouraged to bring ink pen refills, not a new pen. My kids have had the same 4 pens for almost 1.5 years.

As a US high school teacher for 10 years, I foolishly, habitually, and begrudgingly passed out probably 5 pens on average to students each day. Why? Because I’d rather the student write than sit there all class without a pen. What is this reinforcing?!

GRADES

It’s common for the highest grade in the class to be a 7 out of 10. For most US schools, the idea that a 70% is the best is unheard of. This means that grades in Spain are generally not as inflated and also sets realistic expectations. Achieving a 10 should be difficult, not commonplace and for new American students here, this might take some getting used to for both kids and parents.

STANDARDIZED TESTING

It’s not a thing in Spain. Either because teachers are entrusted to do their job or because that type of data collection and school comparison is not point of contention/interest.

INCLUSION

Special education departments do not exist in public schools. There is a cap of 1 student with identified learning challenges per classroom in Spanish public schools and this means that child will reduce the class size overall to 23 students vs. 25.

Inclusion in Spain means that everyone in the school gets to understand, include, and help each other. It’s truly a beautiful thing. For those that require more advanced help, equipment, or care there are special schools to accommodate their needs.

TEACHERS

Teachers in Spain are paid basic wages much like in the US. However, in line with Spanish culture, teachers are much more relaxed. They can be found walking up to school while the kids arrive, wearing jeans, and freely kissing and hugging children without fear of litigious parents, districts, and lots of unnecessary administrative duties/regulations.

Teachers are not expected to send emails home on progress, submit mountains of paperwork for field trips, administer/proctor/prep students for standardized tests, etc. They are trusted to differentiate when needed, call parent/teacher conference at their discretion, etc.

Teachers also can tell you to “shut up” and won’t hesitate to get in your face and tell you to get it together!! This is partially just Spaniards and it’s partially honest and tough love. On that same note, they will hug and kiss your kid like their own so it goes both ways.

SCHOOL BUSES

Not in Spain. Walk, public transport or bike.

HOME SCHOOL

NOT a thing in Spain. While it’s not illegal entirely, it’s highly discouraged and very difficult to home school your child in Spain.

According to this article 3.3% of US students are homeschooled.

TEACHING METHODOLOGY

This is where Spain takes a big back seat to US systems. Spanish schools are very much into rote memorization. Creativity, teamwork, and ingenuity are not as revered. Taking specific notes, pasting them “just so” in the notebook, and copying word for word from the textbook is commonplace. Unless you go to a private school in Spain, most classrooms will feel a bit like the 1960s.

LANGUAGE

Max’s teacher Gema, translates to “gem”, which is exactly what she was for Max and myself during his first year of language learning.

English, Spanish, and the local language is taught from age 3 in Spain. For Valencia, this is Valenciano and schools are legally required to have 33/33/33% language split during the day.

For our first year in Spain, I didn’t mind Valenciano and my kids were given a grace period from grades in the 3 subjects taught in Valenciano. However, in year 2, I’m starting to feel a bit of frustration with 33% of my kid’s day and bandwidth being consumed by a language they will never use outside of this city. While I am proud of the local culture and history here – it’s also politics and I feel a bit conflicted between: having a say in my child’s learning vs. respecting a culture of which I’m a guest.

This is my experience as a mom of a 3rd and 5th grader in Spanish public schools in Valencia, Spain. I am happy with the quality of education and relationships that my kids have here. Our goal was for them to learn Spanish and a different way of life. So far, both of those goals have been achieved! To read more about language acquisition and transitioning to a new school, click on my post titled “Starting Public School in Spain: Overcoming Fear and Our 1st Trimester”

Recent Posts

  • Tips for Writing Your First Book + Self Publishing
  • Gifts That Aren’t Stuff: A Gift List of Experiences for 2021
  • Spanish Culture to Make You Smile
  • Parenting and Pride: An Example to Live By
  • Vacations You Need to Book Months In Advance

Categories

  • Book
  • Living In Spain
  • Moving to Spain
  • Travel Tips and Resources
  • Uncategorized

hickeys_everywhere

717

hickeys_everywhere

View

Oct 16

Open
slay-venia 🇸🇮

slay-venia 🇸🇮 ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Sep 11

Open
If you read my book the foreword is about my genuine fear to publish a book.

Well it's been 6 months and nothing bad has happened to me! No one called the book crap and I received 0 hate emails. In fact, the opposite…I’ve met new friends, rekindled old relationships and learned new skills.

Now it’s your turn, Tell your story, write your song, apply, audition, post the video, start the business, or whatever slightly scares you. Linked in my bio is article I wrote on tips for first-time publishers.

I promise the critics live only in your head.

If you read my book the foreword is about my genuine fear to publish a book.

Well it's been 6 months and nothing bad has happened to me! No one called the book crap and I received 0 hate emails. In fact, the opposite…I’ve met new friends, rekindled old relationships and learned new skills.

Now it’s your turn, Tell your story, write your song, apply, audition, post the video, start the business, or whatever slightly scares you. Linked in my bio is article I wrote on tips for first-time publishers.

I promise the critics live only in your head.
...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Aug 13

Open
Lil tongue action

Lil tongue action ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Jul 8

Open
This isn’t the destination (or outfit) I would have picked but I still did a lot of learning on this trip…
✨ one on one time w/ my kids is priceless
✨ being cheesy is worth my pride
✨ even in Paris there are “Disney people”😱 
✨ taking time off work is always the right move
✨ My dream job: Disney landscaper
✨ If you want to have a magical experience (and mindset) you have to create it
✨ my kids are my teachers 
✨ Disney food blows 
✨ all things are cuter in French
✨ always jump on the hotel bed w your kid
✨ “Gay Men Do Disney” needs to be a show on Netflix immediately 🌈
✨ I have walked a LOT during my travels but this was nexttt level
✨ never say never 
✨ hit record when you play “Heads Up”
✨ 40 is the age when roller coasters feel like being trampled by a herd of horses

#lemondequisillumine #samgram

This isn’t the destination (or outfit) I would have picked but I still did a lot of learning on this trip…
✨ one on one time w/ my kids is priceless
✨ being cheesy is worth my pride
✨ even in Paris there are “Disney people”😱
✨ taking time off work is always the right move
✨ My dream job: Disney landscaper
✨ If you want to have a magical experience (and mindset) you have to create it
✨ my kids are my teachers
✨ Disney food blows
✨ all things are cuter in French
✨ always jump on the hotel bed w your kid
✨ “Gay Men Do Disney” needs to be a show on Netflix immediately 🌈
✨ I have walked a LOT during my travels but this was nexttt level
✨ never say never
✨ hit record when you play “Heads Up”
✨ 40 is the age when roller coasters feel like being trampled by a herd of horses

#lemondequisillumine #samgram
...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Jun 3

Open
I know you want all the things done and the answers now and the goals accomplished but slow down. You’re doing fine.

I know you want all the things done and the answers now and the goals accomplished but slow down. You’re doing fine. ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Apr 30

Open
All of these adventures and learning and all of this beauty but tbh I just wish I could spend Mother’s Day with my mom. It’s not all magic genie lamps and tea in the Sahara desert…it’s missing out on fighting with my brothers over the corner cinnamon roll and not being there to see my nephews first steps. Here’s a happy picture and a sad caption…because that’s what this ::really:: is.

All of these adventures and learning and all of this beauty but tbh I just wish I could spend Mother’s Day with my mom. It’s not all magic genie lamps and tea in the Sahara desert…it’s missing out on fighting with my brothers over the corner cinnamon roll and not being there to see my nephews first steps. Here’s a happy picture and a sad caption…because that’s what this ::really:: is. ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Apr 26

Open
Being here during Ramadan has been so interesting. Some people say don’t travel during this time but I disagree. It wasn’t too hot and the sunset was even more beautiful as we watched people come together to break their fasts.

Being here during Ramadan has been so interesting. Some people say don’t travel during this time but I disagree. It wasn’t too hot and the sunset was even more beautiful as we watched people come together to break their fasts. ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Apr 26

Open
Fes to Merzouga to Marrakech @desertluxurycamp

Fes to Merzouga to Marrakech @desertluxurycamp ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Mar 23

Open
First face to face in almost 2 years. L’Oréal team was great and the pixie food was gorgeous but we later required Korean BBQ. Le boss @jodierogers_symbia 🐐 comme d’habitude.

First face to face in almost 2 years. L’Oréal team was great and the pixie food was gorgeous but we later required Korean BBQ. Le boss @jodierogers_symbia 🐐 comme d’habitude. ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Jan 30

Open
Today I am an Amazon #1 bestselling author in 3 categories!!! 🥇 I don’t have a Ph.D., or a publisher, or an editor, and I’m not an expert (whatever that even means). I had a Google doc. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING 📕

A Google doc - do you hear me? I’m overwhelmed with gratitude. You really can do anything. 

Watch this again but imagine you’re my daughter. Yeah, that’s my real #1.

#getyourlife #AmazonNo1

Today I am an Amazon #1 bestselling author in 3 categories!!! 🥇 I don’t have a Ph.D., or a publisher, or an editor, and I’m not an expert (whatever that even means). I had a Google doc. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING 📕

A Google doc - do you hear me? I’m overwhelmed with gratitude. You really can do anything.

Watch this again but imagine you’re my daughter. Yeah, that’s my real #1.

#getyourlife #AmazonNo1
...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Jan 28

Open
Have Fun. Be Safe. I Love You. 
Now Available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3g6VZqV

Have Fun. Be Safe. I Love You.
Now Available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3g6VZqV
...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Jan 22

Open
BOOK LAUNCH day is Friday 1.28 📕 

These students (and hundreds more) were my inspiration for writing this book. As a teacher for 10 years, I wished I could spend a semester abandoning curriculum to talk about what really matters: relationships, forging your own path, ditching people that drain you, mental health, and authenticity. I would have called that class "Your Grades Don't Matter" and it would have been fire and I would have been fired, ha.

This book is that class. It's a guide for high school upperclassmen (and a great reminder for all ages really) on being fearless, understanding your negativity bias, leaving your dorm room door open, befriending your advisor, and taking care of your thoughts. It's a real-talk reminder that none of us know what we're doing and you don't have to have it all figured out. 

I interviewed some of my former students and included their names and quotes in the book. When I was tired or discouraged in writing, I would picture them seeing their name in print and it would light a fire for me. 

After years of buying sh*t Target graduation cards, this book is what I wished I could have given these students. It's years late but it's for you.

The book is titled :: Have Fun, Be Safe, I Love You :: because everything else will work out juussst fine.

Con amor...Señora Hickey 

 🚀 1.28.22 🚀 
Available next Friday on Amazon and Barnes & Noble

BOOK LAUNCH day is Friday 1.28 📕

These students (and hundreds more) were my inspiration for writing this book. As a teacher for 10 years, I wished I could spend a semester abandoning curriculum to talk about what really matters: relationships, forging your own path, ditching people that drain you, mental health, and authenticity. I would have called that class "Your Grades Don't Matter" and it would have been fire and I would have been fired, ha.

This book is that class. It's a guide for high school upperclassmen (and a great reminder for all ages really) on being fearless, understanding your negativity bias, leaving your dorm room door open, befriending your advisor, and taking care of your thoughts. It's a real-talk reminder that none of us know what we're doing and you don't have to have it all figured out.

I interviewed some of my former students and included their names and quotes in the book. When I was tired or discouraged in writing, I would picture them seeing their name in print and it would light a fire for me.

After years of buying sh*t Target graduation cards, this book is what I wished I could have given these students. It's years late but it's for you.

The book is titled :: Have Fun, Be Safe, I Love You :: because everything else will work out juussst fine.

Con amor...Señora Hickey

🚀 1.28.22 🚀
Available next Friday on Amazon and Barnes & Noble
...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Jan 7

Open
“Mama, in my class everyone says they are café con leche. But they say I’m just leche.” 
—
Café con leche is a popular Spanish coffee order that is half hot milk and half coffee - combining to create a light brown color. Sam is “just milk” aka “white”. Blue eyes. American. English speaking. Other.
—
Moving here has taught us what being “other” feels like.
—
“Other” feels lonely. “Other” makes you seek out your fellow “others” to feel seen. “Other” is a struggle with language, rules, culture, and fitting in. It’s feeling lost when people talk too fast and inferior for not knowing. “Other” is constant and hard.
—
BUT being on the outside builds empathy. Being an “other” means you have a superpower to see those standing outside the circle and a deep desire to invite them in. It means you wait in the “foreigners” line to file paperwork and hold “others” babies while they dig out their copious amounts of paperwork - without judgement. “Other” has strengthened our connections with others and within ourselves.
—
We might be “just leche” but we’re definitely whole. 😉 Living as “other” is a gift but I also recognize that it’s something that we can easily change by moving back. Not everyone has this “other shape-shifting” ability. 
—
So cheers to the café con leches, the soy milks, boba teas, chai lattes, and espressos. And cheers to struggles!! It’s where the real magic and growth happens.

“Mama, in my class everyone says they are café con leche. But they say I’m just leche.”
—
Café con leche is a popular Spanish coffee order that is half hot milk and half coffee - combining to create a light brown color. Sam is “just milk” aka “white”. Blue eyes. American. English speaking. Other.
—
Moving here has taught us what being “other” feels like.
—
“Other” feels lonely. “Other” makes you seek out your fellow “others” to feel seen. “Other” is a struggle with language, rules, culture, and fitting in. It’s feeling lost when people talk too fast and inferior for not knowing. “Other” is constant and hard.
—
BUT being on the outside builds empathy. Being an “other” means you have a superpower to see those standing outside the circle and a deep desire to invite them in. It means you wait in the “foreigners” line to file paperwork and hold “others” babies while they dig out their copious amounts of paperwork - without judgement. “Other” has strengthened our connections with others and within ourselves.
—
We might be “just leche” but we’re definitely whole. 😉 Living as “other” is a gift but I also recognize that it’s something that we can easily change by moving back. Not everyone has this “other shape-shifting” ability.
—
So cheers to the café con leches, the soy milks, boba teas, chai lattes, and espressos. And cheers to struggles!! It’s where the real magic and growth happens.
...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Dec 10

Open
Iche liebe dich

Iche liebe dich ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Nov 28

Open
Last November I Googled “how to write a book”. Today I clicked submit. You can learn how to do anything I swear. @ingramsparkbooks

Last November I Googled “how to write a book”. Today I clicked submit. You can learn how to do anything I swear. @ingramsparkbooks ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Nov 23

Open
People always ask “What do you miss most?” ⬆️

People always ask “What do you miss most?” ⬆️ ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Oct 29

Open
It’s her for me. Happy Birthday. @jewellmason5🤍

It’s her for me. Happy Birthday. @jewellmason5🤍 ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Sep 19

Open
I heard on NPR years ago a study of happy people. What the majority of them had in common was they all had something they were looking forward to. 
Think about what gets you through the week? It’s the excitement for the next thing: Friday happy hour, a concert, a wedding, or a trip. 
The pandemic took away my ability to look forward to things and it really put into perspective how much of my happiness revolves around a countdown. The dreaming, anticipating, research, and planning is half the fun. 

I hope you’ve got something good in the hopper😉

I heard on NPR years ago a study of happy people. What the majority of them had in common was they all had something they were looking forward to.
Think about what gets you through the week? It’s the excitement for the next thing: Friday happy hour, a concert, a wedding, or a trip.
The pandemic took away my ability to look forward to things and it really put into perspective how much of my happiness revolves around a countdown. The dreaming, anticipating, research, and planning is half the fun.

I hope you’ve got something good in the hopper😉
...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Sep 14

Open
12 years old. He’s hilarious, adventurous, so loving and smart. No more kids meals bruv. You’re big time now… @maxhick17

12 years old. He’s hilarious, adventurous, so loving and smart. No more kids meals bruv. You’re big time now… @maxhick17 ...

hickeys_everywhere

View

Sep 12

Open
Little fishing town of Burano - a 30 min boat ride from Venice. The colored houses helped the fishermen to find the village through the fog when they were out at sea.🌈

Little fishing town of Burano - a 30 min boat ride from Venice. The colored houses helped the fishermen to find the village through the fog when they were out at sea.🌈 ...

Load More... Follow on Instagram
© Copyright - Hickeys Everywhere - Web Design and Development by Data Driven Design
  • Link to Instagram
  • Link to Pinterest
  • Link to Facebook
Link to: What to Bring and What to Leave When Moving Abroad Link to: What to Bring and What to Leave When Moving Abroad What to Bring and What to Leave When Moving Abroad Link to: What It’s ::Really:: Like Living Abroad Link to: What It’s ::Really:: Like Living Abroad What It’s ::Really:: Like Living Abroad
Scroll to top Scroll to top Scroll to top